Friday, August 14, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: The Cancer Woman

On the surface, the Cancer woman might seem composed and even...well, perfect. But she has hidden depths to her. She can be shy and sweet at first, then later become sensual and even erotic. But it takes the right kind of love to get there, so you'll have to give of yourself first if you want to unlock the true nature of the Cancer woman.

Because she is naturally shy, don't expect her to make the first move. She isn't at all forward, but she will give you subtle hints that could lead to a substantial relationship. But pay attention, because if you miss her unspoken invitation you might lose her entirely.

As a water sign, she values trust above all. While she is cautious about giving her heart to another, once she does she is unwavering in her loyalty and gives her trust unabashedly. If you love her, trust her, and make her feel secure, she will be yours forever. If you violate the trust she has given you, she may never truly forgive you. In her head, perhaps, but never really in her heart. So tread carefully if you value her presence in your life.

The Cancer woman may come across as a little old-fashioned, but only because she is old-fashioned. She has an independent streak, true, but she also longs to be sheltered and protected, which is one of the many qualities that draws others to her. As a woman, she desires romance, and as a Cancer she wants you to take the lead in that romance, so don't wait around for her to plan a romantic night out. Do the planning and she'll be far more receptive towards you.

Though you might call her the quintessential woman, she has depths that will take years to discover. Appreciate her for the affectionate, sympathetic, and imaginative woman she is and she'll give you all she has to offer.

Friday, August 7, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: Attracting a Gemini

Gemini likes to be impressed, so show off your knowledge of a subject you're passionate about. The typical Gemini tends to know a little about everything, so conversation will likely ensue. Just make sure you know what you're talking about. Gemini doesn't appreciate a faker.

Be candid and honest, for that's what Gemini is after, but beware of appearing smug and try not to come off as too conservative. Both are turnoffs for the sensitive Gemini. And don't worry if you disagree. A good exchange is a good exchange, and Gemini recognizes this.

Though intellectual conversation is appreciated, Gemini also likes to engage in gossip, especially if there's an element of humor in it. Focus on making him or her laugh, not on being malicious, and you'll have a captive audience.

Remember that Gemini is looking for an aura of mutual trust. Don't give him or her a reason to mistrust you, and don't approach a Gemini with a suspicious attitude. Trust is important to this sun sign, so make sure you respect that.

If you're looking for a gift for a Gemini, try books, puzzles, or anything that stimulates the mind. Flowers and such could be wasted on this more intellectual astrological sign.

Friday, May 22, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: The Gemini Man

Vivacious, quick-witted, and filled with a lust for life, the Gemini male draws women (or men, possibly) to him with practiced ease. His charm, generosity, and fertile imagination make a date with him exciting and oftentimes romantic. Though many women are drawn to him, few will stay in his life for longer than a night or two. He's notoriously hard to pin down, and trying will only drive him away all the faster.

He might come off as a womanizer, but he's really anything but. The Gemini man really and truly loves women and he pays attention to what they have to say. This is a great part of his success in the romance department. But, like most Gemini, he needs fun and excitement in his life. He'll flee any relationship that doesn't give him the fun he needs. Because all relationships have their lulls, and he tends to be impatient, he does have a tendency to run away from a relationship that would ultimately have made him happy. Such is the nature of Gemini.

But that isn't the only reason he tends to run off without much notice. He's a little uncomfortable with love as an emotion (though as an action...well, sign him up!), so a woman who takes love too seriously is a turn off for him. Though they are initially attracted to women with a flare for the dramatic, mostly because these women appear more fun on the surface, he usually loses interest before too long.

And yet, he is not a true womanizer. The reason he runs from one female to the next is because he really is searching for a woman to spend the rest of his life with. Remember that Gemini is the sign of the twins, so he's truly searching for his spiritual and romantic twin. He knows she's out there. He just hasn't found her yet. When he does, he will never leave her side.

In bed he is imaginative, confident, and has a great deal of flair, but his lover may get the impression that he is not fully committed. His attention may wander, even in the throes of great sex, but this is simply a part of his nature. It doesn't mean he's straying. It usually means he's thinking of something exciting and fun to do next.

A fascinating person, the true Gemini man tends to flit through life and romance with hardly a care. Still, even those he rejects love him, for he is a joy to know. Even if you only know him for a short time.

Friday, May 8, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: The Gemini Woman

A Gemini woman is full of contradictions. She is passionate lover one moment, a careful friend the next. She needs to be coddled, but she also needs to exert her independence. Her love affairs tend to be of a more casual nature, but she is fiercely loyal when she does finally commit. One moment she will be seated next to a roaring fire, enjoying the peace, and the next she'll be running around in search of novel stimulation and excitement. It can be hard to keep up, harder still to figure her out.

She finds most men (or women, depending on her preference) dull, but this merely means she has a fine appreciation for a more interesting companion. If you want to attract her, you'll have to work at it. Don't expect her to stay around otherwise. Gemini, in fact, is a contrary sign, so the Gemini woman will flee as soon as the relationship becomes stale. She'll leave with no second thoughts. This sign excels at moving on.

Because Gemini is capricious and changeable, is she not easily satisfied. To keep her content and present, her companion will have to work to satisfy her on all levels--emotionally, mentally, and sexually. This is a tall order, especially when she seeks great variety in her life.  If you can give her what she needs, she will be a faithful and devoted companion. If you can't, she'll flee and never look back.

All of this might make her sound high maintenance, and she is, but a Gemini is always worth the effort. She is a quick learner and is blessed with endless curiosity, which means she's willing to try just about anything once. She'll go skydiving, train for a marathon, or try something new in the bedroom all because she's never done it before. She loves excitement, so if you do too you might do well with a Gemini woman.

If you are going to try a relationship with a Gemini woman, don't take what she says at face value. There's always another motive behind her words, even if she doesn't realize it at the time. She's not deceitful, just...contrary.

Beneath it all lies a woman who is solid and faithful to the man (or woman) who finally captures her heart. She gives endlessly of herself to the right man, but she demands everything in return. Expect her to be possessive and even jealous when the situation calls for it, but only because she expects her love to be returned wholeheartedly.

The true Gemini woman is intelligent, exciting, vibrant, tempestuous, and incredibly witty. She is a lot to handle for most, but just enough for the right man.

Friday, March 20, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: Attracting a Taurus

You cannot rush a Taurus, so if you're hoping to attract this practical sign on a romantic level, be prepared to wait. They will not rush headlong into a new relationship, romantic or otherwise, but instead take the time to build a strong foundation before committing. This 'building' will take time and often requires patience, but Taurus will appreciate you all the more for waiting.

Taurus is often slow to make up his or her mind. Because of this, the first move may be entirely up to you. If you wait, if you simply sit around waiting for Taurus to take the lead, you may end up missing the opportunity entirely. Don't be afraid to pursue Taurus, but be prepared to do so slowly.

To keep a Taurus interested show him or her that you like to be around them. Don't blow them off, especially in the beginning of the relationship, or Taurus will quickly dismiss you as unreliable and move on to someone new. When you are with Taurus, try to be amusing, for Taurus responds best to those who can make them laugh. Remember that anyone born under the sun sign Taurus will have a broad and robust sense of humor. Physical jokes are most likely to make them laugh, but they respond to most types of humor. Take a risk and try to be funny if you want to keep Taurus interested.

The Taurus man, like the Taurus woman, enjoys a good meal. Feed either gender well by either cooking at home or dining at a decent restaurant. Don't expect Taurus to be satisfied with a fast food joint. They'll expect a place where the chef knows what he's doing and the wine list offers a decent selection. If you decide to cook for Taurus, show that you can handle yourself in the kitchen and don't hold back on the portions.

Taurus typically finds many things fascinating, so it shouldn't be hard to hold a conversation. But if you find the conversation lagging, try talking about money. Most individuals born under this sign can talk about money and finances for hours, so at least there will be conversation. And while Taurus loves to hear from others, make sure you don't monopolize the conversation. Taurus likes to share as well, so give them that opportunity.

Finally, it's important to offer compliments to the true Taurus, but they must be genuine. Taurus can see through falsehood with ease and they do not appreciate it. So praise their hair, jewelry, or clothing, by all means, but make sure the words coming out of your mouth are full of honesty.

A relationship with the patient Taurus is typically stable and steady. Though they are perhaps not the most inventive of people, they are always there for those they love and their love runs deep. Once a Taurus is committed, it takes a great deal of strive to drive him or her away, so a relationship with Taurus can last a lifetime.

Friday, January 30, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: The Taurus Man

Taurus is the sign of practicality, so it should come as no surprise that the Taurus man is entirely sensible, even in love. He won't necessarily sweep you off your feet, but only because the idea wouldn't occur to him. The Taurus male is very deliberate in his search for love. He's looking for the woman who can satisfy him for eternity, not the flavor of the month. Patience is natural for him, so he's certainly willing to wait. You won't see the true Taurus man jumping into a relationship without looking.

If he's rejected by another, expect him to hide it well. He'll feel the rebuff acutely, however, and won't likely give that person another chance to hurt him. This sun sign is also an incurable romantic, just like the Taurus woman, so he'll treat his partner well and love her (or him) for who they really are. Unlike some of the other signs, Taurus has no illusions. He won't put his partner on a pedestal, but he will cherish her.

If you're in a romantic relationship with a Taurus male, don't expect him to say "I love you" very often. Taurus is not a verbal sun sign. Instead he'll show his love with his unending generosity. Expect gifts, but practical ones, for he values the money he spends. This doesn't mean he won't give you jewelry. It does mean he'd rather save up for a truly nice necklace than get you a trinket from the pharmacy.

Though Taurus may seem reserved, he really has quite a passionate nature. He enjoys his sex life and is direct about his needs. Don't expect a lot of variation, however, for Taurus likes it simple. Don't worry, though. His vitality and stamina more than make up for his lack of creativity in the bedroom.

This sign is one you can depend on, so expect a romantic relationship with Taurus to be practical, affectionate, and highly sensual. The Taurus male won't ever let you down because his own stubborn nature won't let him.

Friday, January 23, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: The Taurus Woman

If you want sensuality and stability rolled up in a single package, look no further than the Taurus female. She is the Aphrodite of the sun signs, but she is not at all promiscuous. Anyone looking for a one night stand should definitely seek elsewhere. The Taurus woman may be the very soul of sensuality, but she's looking for stability above all else. If you're not going to offer her that, expect her to drop you like a hot potato.

Being in love brings out the very best qualities in her. She is protective and nurturing, passionate and caring, earthy and devoted. She is straightforward and affectionate, but never coy. She is also lusty in bed and secure enough in her own judgment to never give credence to rumors. A true prize for any man.

A Taurus woman has a lot to offer, but she also demands much in return. She expects to get out of a relationship what she put in, so if a man isn't interested in being full partners he'd better search elsewhere for a mate.

Expect this woman to have plans of her own, plans that she won't necessarily share. A true Taurus lady never leaves such matters as love and sex to chance. It will all be planned down to the smallest detail, and the plan always goes off without a hitch. And usually this all happens without her mate ever knowing there was a plan in the first place.

The Taurus woman is the most romantic in the zodiac. She is serene, elegant, and sexy. Some may find her a little boring with her ruthless adherence to plans and rules, but the person who attracts her should count himself (or herself) blessed.

Friday, January 16, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: Attracting an Aries

If you're hoping to attract an Aries romantically, be prepared to seize the opportunity. The fiery Aries doesn't appreciate timidity. If you're attracted to an Aries, let him or her know immediately. Don't worry about appearing too forward. For an Aries, a compliment is always well received and even expected. But since this sign is famous for its ability to spot insincerity, make sure you're honest about your attraction. Laying it on too thick is one of the fastest ways to lose an Aries.

As fiery and physical as Aries usually is, they need more than physical attraction to enter into a relationship. They enjoy lively discussions and debates, so a dinner and a movie may not necessarily be the best first date. Consider something involving the theater, music, art,, history, culture, or even a sporting event if your Aries is interested in sports. If you don't know much about the subject matter, let knowledgeable Aries explain it to you. An Aries has the ability to make these explanations fun an exciting.

If you're going to date an Aries, rest up. They don't really watch the clock and continue the fun until the fun wears off. This can make for some late nights. Aries also tends to gain more energy as the evening wears on. The term 'second wind' definitely applies. In fact, expect Aries to have a 'third wind' and maybe even a 'fourth wind'. And they'll expect any romantic partner to keep up.

Aries is a problem solver in the take-the-bull-by-the-horns kind of way. This means that they welcome the opportunity to offer advice. And unlike some of the more flighty signs (Aquarius comes immediately to mind), the advice from an Aries is usually quite practical. They're also incredibly generous with their time, advice, and even money, so a typical Aries can not only offer a solution but help execute it. This can come in handy, so don't be afraid to go to Aries for help even if you're at the very beginning of your relationship.

A relationship with Aries can be fun, exciting, and entertaining, but there's also a welcome practical side to the relationship. Just don't try to dictate to a true Aries. They'd don't appreciate it. In fact, Aries even has trouble following orders they want to follow. If you're willing to let powerful Aries take the lead, a romantic relationship with this sun sign can work in your favor.

Friday, January 9, 2015

Sun Signs and Love: The Aries Man

The Aries man is full of fiery emotions. In fact, he has few other kinds of emotions; every one of them blazes bright and hot. He has an adventurous nature and is always on the lookout for excitement. And it finds him. Or he finds it. Either way, life around an Aries male is rarely boring.

In love he is both aggressive and attentive. He's hard to say no to, and most don't want to. Virile and attractive, he works to keep things original. As exciting as an affair with the blazing Aries might be, these affairs are usually depressingly brief. Aries likes novelty and change, so expect him to flit from relationship to relationship.

At first. There is a deeper side to an Aries man than is immediately apparent. He's actually on the lookout for the perfect woman, his perfect mate. This man will keep prowling until he finds her, and keep discarding those who don't measure up to his ideal. When he finds his mate, he will devote himself to her with all the fierceness Aries is known for. But he can't stand deception and if he finds he has been taken advantage of, he'll bypass being hurt and move straight to anger. Beware an angry Aries.

Aries, as the first of the sun signs, cannot take a passive role in love. He will run the show both in the bedroom and outside of it. He simply cannot bear to leave the decisions to another and that will not change easily, if at all. Fortunately he's upfront about this from the beginning. Aries is blunt and to the point, so he won't pretend to allow another to control him. He's refreshingly honest in a forceful sort of way.

He's also incredibly rash, almost to the point of having no control over his raging emotions. If he wants you, he wants you. If he loves you, he loves you. And this man will go to the ends of the earth to attain what he wants, what he loves. He doesn't worry about the consequences, even though you might. He occasionally needs reigning in, and this is no easy task.

A relationship with an Aries man will be full of energy, excitement, and magnetism. No matter how long it lasts, it's sure to be a time full of passion and adventure.