Sun Signs and Love: Attracting a Gemini

Gemini likes to be impressed, so show off your knowledge of a subject you're passionate about. The typical Gemini tends to know a little about everything, so conversation will likely ensue. Just make sure you know what you're talking about. Gemini doesn't appreciate a faker.

Be candid and honest, for that's what Gemini is after, but beware of appearing smug and try not to come off as too conservative. Both are turnoffs for the sensitive Gemini. And don't worry if you disagree. A good exchange is a good exchange, and Gemini recognizes this.

Though intellectual conversation is appreciated, Gemini also likes to engage in gossip, especially if there's an element of humor in it. Focus on making him or her laugh, not on being malicious, and you'll have a captive audience.

Remember that Gemini is looking for an aura of mutual trust. Don't give him or her a reason to mistrust you, and don't approach a Gemini with a suspicious attitude. Trust is important to this sun sign, so make sure you respect that.

If you're looking for a gift for a Gemini, try books, puzzles, or anything that stimulates the mind. Flowers and such could be wasted on this more intellectual astrological sign.

Sun Signs and Love: The Gemini Man

Vivacious, quick-witted, and filled with a lust for life, the Gemini male draws women (or men, possibly) to him with practiced ease. His charm, generosity, and fertile imagination make a date with him exciting and oftentimes romantic. Though many women are drawn to him, few will stay in his life for longer than a night or two. He's notoriously hard to pin down, and trying will only drive him away all the faster.

He might come off as a womanizer, but he's really anything but. The Gemini man really and truly loves women and he pays attention to what they have to say. This is a great part of his success in the romance department. But, like most Gemini, he needs fun and excitement in his life. He'll flee any relationship that doesn't give him the fun he needs. Because all relationships have their lulls, and he tends to be impatient, he does have a tendency to run away from a relationship that would ultimately have made him happy. Such is the nature of Gemini.

But that isn't the only reason he tends to run off without much notice. He's a little uncomfortable with love as an emotion (though as an action...well, sign him up!), so a woman who takes love too seriously is a turn off for him. Though they are initially attracted to women with a flare for the dramatic, mostly because these women appear more fun on the surface, he usually loses interest before too long.

And yet, he is not a true womanizer. The reason he runs from one female to the next is because he really is searching for a woman to spend the rest of his life with. Remember that Gemini is the sign of the twins, so he's truly searching for his spiritual and romantic twin. He knows she's out there. He just hasn't found her yet. When he does, he will never leave her side.

In bed he is imaginative, confident, and has a great deal of flair, but his lover may get the impression that he is not fully committed. His attention may wander, even in the throes of great sex, but this is simply a part of his nature. It doesn't mean he's straying. It usually means he's thinking of something exciting and fun to do next.

A fascinating person, the true Gemini man tends to flit through life and romance with hardly a care. Still, even those he rejects love him, for he is a joy to know. Even if you only know him for a short time.

Sun Signs and Love: The Gemini Woman

A Gemini woman is full of contradictions. She is passionate lover one moment, a careful friend the next. She needs to be coddled, but she also needs to exert her independence. Her love affairs tend to be of a more casual nature, but she is fiercely loyal when she does finally commit. One moment she will be seated next to a roaring fire, enjoying the peace, and the next she'll be running around in search of novel stimulation and excitement. It can be hard to keep up, harder still to figure her out.

She finds most men (or women, depending on her preference) dull, but this merely means she has a fine appreciation for a more interesting companion. If you want to attract her, you'll have to work at it. Don't expect her to stay around otherwise. Gemini, in fact, is a contrary sign, so the Gemini woman will flee as soon as the relationship becomes stale. She'll leave with no second thoughts. This sign excels at moving on.

Because Gemini is capricious and changeable, is she not easily satisfied. To keep her content and present, her companion will have to work to satisfy her on all levels--emotionally, mentally, and sexually. This is a tall order, especially when she seeks great variety in her life.  If you can give her what she needs, she will be a faithful and devoted companion. If you can't, she'll flee and never look back.

All of this might make her sound high maintenance, and she is, but a Gemini is always worth the effort. She is a quick learner and is blessed with endless curiosity, which means she's willing to try just about anything once. She'll go skydiving, train for a marathon, or try something new in the bedroom all because she's never done it before. She loves excitement, so if you do too you might do well with a Gemini woman.

If you are going to try a relationship with a Gemini woman, don't take what she says at face value. There's always another motive behind her words, even if she doesn't realize it at the time. She's not deceitful, just...contrary.

Beneath it all lies a woman who is solid and faithful to the man (or woman) who finally captures her heart. She gives endlessly of herself to the right man, but she demands everything in return. Expect her to be possessive and even jealous when the situation calls for it, but only because she expects her love to be returned wholeheartedly.

The true Gemini woman is intelligent, exciting, vibrant, tempestuous, and incredibly witty. She is a lot to handle for most, but just enough for the right man.

The Astrological Sun Signs: The Details of Gemini

The third of the sun signs is Gemini, and those born between May 21st and June 20th are often under its influence. Gemini can be responsive and engaging, and often have dual personalities. However, there is much more involved in interpreting the complexities of this sun sign. Quite often, the personality of Gemini is addressed without acknowledging the details associated with this fickle sign.

The Gemini Personality

Astrology is a complex thing, and creating personality profiles for those born under specific signs involves many factors. In regards to Gemini, these factors come together to describe someone who is creative, persuasive, and an excellent communicator.

Gemini is a mutable, masculine air sign. Masculine signs are outwardly directed and strong through action. Mutable signs are flexible and versatile. Air signs are intellectual and creative. Together, these three things indicate a person who is often personable, adaptable, and excels in the areas of communication and creativity.

Gemini is ruled by the planet Mercury, the ancient messenger of the gods. Mercury reigns over communication and travel, and its influence can foster a nervous temperament. Those born under this sign might be included to travel, but may be too nervous to actually do so.

The primary symbol of Gemini is the Twins. The Twins are versatile and associated with duality and humanism. The glyph (written symbol) of Gemini represents the two figures of the Twins. Those ruled by the Twins may be the picture of adaptability, changing to meet any need. However, they may be too eager to please in some situations.

The Correspondences of Gemini

Each sign has certain traditional correspondences, usually determined by observation and history. Gemini is no exception, having many classical correspondences. Most of these have remained unchanged for the last century.

Gemini rules the hands, arms, shoulders, and lungs. People born under this sign may be prone to strains and accidents involving the arms and hands. They may also experience occasional bronchitis and respiratory ailments.

Wednesday is considered to be a blessed day for a Gemini, and the numbers five and nine are thought to be lucky. The stone agate is associated with Gemini, and is said to protect from deceptions and bestow eloquence.

Some other correspondences for the sign of Gemini are:

• Yellow, the bright and luminous color of novelty;
• Cities such as London, Melbourne, San Francisco, and Versailles;
• Countries such as Belgium, the United States of America, and Wales;
• All nut-bearing trees;
• Flowers such as lavender and lily-of-the-valley;
• The metal mercury; and
• Whimsical animals such as brightly colored birds and butterflies.

Many of the details associated with Gemini are connected to travel and communication. Those born under this sign might be prone to accidents while traveling, especially by air. In addition, the fickle nature of Gemini might arouse anger in others, the depth of which Gemini may underestimate. But, for the most part, Gemini is a fun-loving and exciting sign.

Astrological Sun Signs: Gemini in Brief



Those born between May 22nd and June 21st are ruled by Gemini, whose astrological symbols are the twins and duality. When Gemini finally arrives, the frantic pace of the spring and the need to enjoy every bit of sun after the harsh winter has usually faded. People are more relaxed and able to catch up on the other areas of their lives that have been put aside. This is also the season of joy, especially the joy of seeing familiar faces after a long winter. This joy usually overshadows any disagreements you might have with those closest to you. The sign of Gemini is a time to exchange family news and just living in general.

Gemini rules duality in general, including the feeling of two emotions at the same time. Gemini is also the sign of communication by speaking and writing, basic learning, restlessness, short trips, neighbors, and relatives. The part of the body ruled by Gemini is the hands.

People born under the sign of Gemini function best when doing two or more things at once.

The Astrological Sun Signs: The Personality of Gemini

Those born between May 21st and June 20th are connected to the sign of Gemini, the third of the sun signs. This sign symbolizes responsiveness and duality. Gemini is the sign of the Twins, and individuals with this trait often express the words, “I think.”

The sun sign isn’t the only important factor of astrology. To construct an accurate birth chart, details such as moon signs, houses, and aspects must also be considered.

The Character of Gemini

If you were born under the sign of Gemini, you may have made sides to your personality, be quick in thought and action, and have the ability to deal with others quite skilfully. You are quite possibly filled with new ideas and have a great desire to explore.

Gemini is often said to embody all the traits of humanity. These include intelligence, adaptability, and the ability to communicate. Some schools of thought view these three things as the distinguishing characteristics of the human race, making Gemini the quintessential human sign.

Many Gemini feel the need to involve themselves in the world around them. If you are a Gemini, you may be endlessly curious and unable to sit on the sidelines. You may wish to be the actor, the director, and the producer of your entire universe, and may be prone to excluding others.

The sign of Gemini is the sign of duality. As a Gemini, you probably want more than one of everything, including lovers, careers, and hobbies. You may be restless, always seeking new ideas and experiences. This can lead to a trail of unfinished tasks. Like others of your sign, you may have difficulty focusing on just one task, often frittering your energy away on multiple projects at once.

Natives of Gemini often have an incredible need to communicate. You may enjoy writing notes, spending evenings on the phone or in a chat room, and even chatting with complete strangers. Your love of communication may influence your persuasive abilities, and you may find yourself an able negotiator. It is likely that you know a little about everything, making you an exciting conversationalist. You may be inclined to have strong opinions on everything, but these opinions are subject to change without notice.

If Gemini has a single weakness, it is a tendency towards superficiality. You may not bother to explore the depths of an idea or situation, possibly leading you to deceive yourself, or allowing yourself to be deceived by others. On the other hand, this trait may enable you to make a great first impression with very little preparation.

The Sign of Gemini and Its Relationship With Others

Gemini is a sign that usually has little difficulty in dealing with the public, largely due to a love of communication. Often drawn to the dramatic arts, those born under the sign of Gemini tend to be quick and adaptable, able to deal with any type of person.

You tend to be a wonderful friend, using your charm and wit to lift the spirits of all those who surround you. Though often impatient with those who cannot keep up with the rapid flow of your speech and thoughts, you will do your best to be there for a friend in true need.

Though you may be possessed of a darker emotional aide, you are unlikely to spend too much time brooding. Fun and games are much more attractive. This may lead friends and family to accuse you of being shallow. Indeed, you can be, but you may simply have made the decision not to allow your darker side to rule you.

As a Gemini, you may well benefit from a wide range of contacts, many of them powerful or influential. Those people will help you to attract financial luck, but they are often frustrated by your tendency towards extravagance.

Anyone who tries to pin you down may find it a futile effort, for you are likely to abhor routine and monotony. You probably value change and freedom, and expect the people in your life to accept that.

Gemini is a powerful sign of exploration and imagination. Those born under the influence of this sign are usually open to new and different ways of looking at things. The correspondences of Gemini are a strong influence upon this sign, and can contribute to the sheer fascination that surrounds Gemini.